My Baby Shower Ideas

The first child always gets all the glory; the new clothes, shiny toys and extravagant baby shower. Celebrate the impending arrival of infant number two, three, or more with a big fun party.

More expectant moms are having showers for babies other than their first. Each child is a new experience and parents will need certain supplies to cloth, feed and comfort their new arrival. Certain disposable items like diapers, bottles and nursing supplies, need constant replenishment. And, in some cases, they may even need a new car seat, extra crib or larger stroller.

Many expectant parents often opt to throw an event different from the typical baby shower routine. These parties often have unique themes and activities.

A great way to help mom during dinner time is by throwing a potluck party. Each guest brings one dish to eat at the party and another frozen entree to give to the expectant parents. Compile all the recipes into a memory scrapbook for future use.

Moms-to-be always need items like diapers, wipes and feeding supplies. Hosts can encourage guests to give these necessities. Assign to them a specific time or duty of the day and instruct them to purchase an item most appropriate to the occasion. For example, the guest who draws “bath time” can give baby bathing soaps, shampoos, washcloths and lotions.

Some people host a “Helping Hands” party, with guests offering their assistance, services and expertise via redeemable coupons and certificates. Some ideas include: babysitting services, help with household chores and errands, gift certificates for local eateries that deliver, and yard work assistance.

Use the party as an opportunity to help others. If the expectant mother has all the necessities she needs, guests can bring gifts for a charity donation in the new baby’s name.

Many mothers opt for a quiet get together with girlfriends. They may prefer a night dining and dancing on the town, or a quiet evening gossiping and watching movies. In these instances, all gifts can focus on mom’s needs. Some examples include her favorite novels, boxes of chocolate, certificates for spa treatments and elegant lingerie.

In today’s society, it is acceptable, and even encouraged, to have a shower for a second baby. Center the occasion on the expectant parents and make gifts optional. The key is to enjoy the festivities and focus on the new life entering the world instead of material possessions.